How many times have we told ourselves: “Why did I do that?”, “I should have…”, “I was so stupid…”
Quit saying that to yourself, part of growing is learning. What we see as mistakes are in fact just lessons learned. No one was born knowing it all.
If you made choices that didn’t work for you, just try again until they do. Until you learn.
Change your mindset from “trying- to- be-perfect” to “learner”. If you see yourself as a constant learner, you will understand that every choice you make is an opportunity, not an obstacle, not an error. But just a chance to grow.